Hello!
Some people might think that this is what love looks like:
Sitting
in a field of flowers, utterly and blissfully in love without a care in
the world. Well....I think it's true....sometimes love does look like
that. The example in the above photo is of my husband Craig and I, and
while it's true that we are sitting in a field of flowers making googly
eyes at each other, things are not always as they seem. This photo was
from our engagement photo session and the field of flowers you see is
actually a small patch of grass off the side of a city street and we're
sitting on a towel because the ground was covered in mud and prickly
thorns. We also seem to be smiling in the photo, but we're really just
joking about how awkward it is getting photos taken. I think this is
kind of like an analogy about love. It's not always perfect and doesn't
always happen the way you thought it would.
BUT...while
love isn't perfect, it's what makes life worth living. It may not be a
fairy tale every single day, but it's real and it can be so beautiful
if you put in the work. I think love isn't so much a feeling as it is
an action.
Love to me is:
*Getting up early to make lunch for him
*When he warms up my side of the bed before I get there.
*Staying in, curled up with pizza and Netflix on a Friday night.
*Saying what needs to be said even when it's hard.
*Noticing a new freckle....even when it's just a little one.
*Complete trust.
*Silly inside jokes.
*Remembering my favorite flowers
*Coffee dates.
*Hard times that can be worked through together
*Fighting (fair) and then making up.
*Putting the other person's needs/feelings first.
Love
looks different for everyone and there is no "perfect" love story.
Just people who choose to show love to one another a day at a time.
Hope you choose love today!
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